Steve wards rules to dating
(Don't hate the player, hate the game.) When a man approaches you you're the one with total control over the situation-whether he can talk to you, buy you a drink, dance with you, get your number, take you home, see you again, all of that.We certainly want these things from you; that's why we talked to you in the first place.Well, I’m here to tell you that expecting that kind of love— that perfection—from a man is unrealistic.That’s right, I said it—it’s not gonna happen, no way, no how.Because holding on to that baggage can be paralyzing; it can cripple you and keep you from performing in your next encounter.
The first step, I think, is to get over the fear of losing a man by confronting him. The most successful people in this world recognize that taking chances to get what they want is much more productive than sitting around being too scared to take a shot.
You could be the most perfect woman on the Lord's green earth-you're capable of interesting conversation, you cook a mean breakfast, you hand out backrubs like sandwiches, you're independent (which means, to him, that you're not going to be in his pockets)-but if he's not ready for a serious relationship, he going to treat you like sports fish.” ― Steve Harvey, “Nothing on this planet can compare with a woman’s love—it is kind and compassionate, patient and nurturing, generous and sweet and unconditional. If you are her man, she will walk on water and through a mountain for you, too, no matter how you’ve acted out, no matter what crazy thing you’ve done, no matter the time or demand.