On dating the cool girl
People who keep themselves occupied with hobbies, classes and activities sound more cool, interesting and intriguing than those who vaguely claim to be ‘super busy’ all the time.The truth is that if you have a varied life filled with commitments, then you won’t need to play waiting games because you will genuinely be busy and will have to make time to reply to potential dates, which will subsequently make them feel more valued that you are making the effort to fit them into your schedule.And finally, if you have some gentlemanly qualities, the beautiful blond Swedish girls will be all over you.
They know that if they don’t answer, more texts, e-mails and tweets or meet-up invitations will come their way and before they know it they are snowed under a myriad of social media.Boredom, lack of balls, and overall disappointment are contributing factors. Like I said, if you are male and not Swedish, you already have a leading position.If you have the ability to speak to girls without being a pussy and make good conversation, again, major brownie posts.Some say that when playing it cool one should end phone calls and dates early to show the other person that they don’t dictate the terms of the relationship.
Rather than end conversations early, a more useful tactic is to aim to be the one who tends to end dates and phone calls first as this will show the other person that you are firmly in control of yourself and are not going to rush the relationship.You also must think that Swedish women hate their fellow men.