Man not making dating plans
To start, pursue doesn’t mean sit idly by and wait for the man to do all of the work.
It also doesn’t mean waste time waiting for him to decide that you’re committing to.
If you want a relationship with a guy, there is to make him yours.
But before you jump into action, assess what his level of interest is. Often, a man is making it crystal clear that he doesn’t want a relationship.
Letting a man pursue you doesn’t mean that you can’t let him know that you’re interested.
Give him the green light to proceed and trust that if he likes you, he will.
How many times have you met a great guy, had a decent interaction, or even a fun date with him and then waited and waited for him to make the next move? If you think he likes you, and you know that you like him, how do you get into a relationship? I want to make it clear about what pursue does and doesn’t mean.
Maybe the man you’re dating right now is spending a lot of time with you, and showing his interest but he won’t actually pull the trigger on commitment.
All of those actions give you insight to his personality.
There is no amount of pursuit that you can offer, that will get a man into a relationship who doesn’t want to be in one.