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She always has options, and so she doesn’t “have” to reply to your texts if they don’t spark her interest.Principle #2 – Make her feel something – Women make decisions about who to give their attention to based on how to they feel in the moment.
Principle #3 – Metal is easier to bend when it’s red hot – Let’s say you want to bend a metal pipe.
If you give her a spike of positive feelings with your texts and THEN ask her out…
that’s like heating up the metal and then bending it. When you ask her out while she’s feeling good about you, the chances of her saying yes are much higher.
She wants a guy who is going to step up and ask her out. Mistake #3 – Not having a plan before you text her – Lots of guys will fire off a boring text without giving it much thought. ” What they don’t realize is that she gets texts like this all the time from other guys. She still has good feelings about meeting you, and she gave you her number so she could see you again. Now if you notice in the first text, I sent a combination of stage 3 and stage 2.
Instead, just put a little thought into what you want to send her, and you’ll be much more likely to stand out and win her attention. There’s no reason to initiate some long, drawn out “get to know you over text” conversation. First, I reminded her of what we connected over when we first met (ethnic food).
I’ve seen lots of guys use text to try and tell stories, be funny or sarcastic, asking her deep questions, etc.