Dom sub dating
EL James’ latest novel, Grey, rehashes Fifty Shades from the perspective of Christian Grey, the so-called dominant.
But the story bears little resemblance to real dom/sub relationships.
James’ inspirations, apart from Twilight, are nineteenth-century romantic classics.
A good romance offers an interesting setting but, in using BDSM as window dressing, James picked a dangerous backdrop.
I should know – as a professional dominatrix, the patient training of submissives is my specialty.
The fans love Grey but, like its predecessors, it’s no manual for BDSM relationships.Last week, finally, only after nearly two hours of careful brutality with my canes, tawses and paddles, did his moans of anguish collapse into beautiful tears.But only recently have I trusted him enough to force him through his barriers, because he has not used his safeword.It took time, trust, thought, discussion – many hours of it – in person and online.
But how sweet my control tastes to me, and how sweet his surrender tastes to him, because he and I worked so hard for it.
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