Dating your husband wife
I have given up hope that he will ever stop and I can’t take it any longer. – Dear Hema The man you married is telling people you’re out of the picture and he has the barefaced cheek to lie about it. Chatting about life, the universe and everything is good for the soul.I know for some people, it might seem like a harmless thing. But the way he writes to this one woman online and how he is sometimes so cold towards me at home makes me wonder if the only reason he is sticking with me is just for the sake of being married and for someone to take care of him and the house. Also, in a marriage you simply can’t be all things to each other.That coldness you speak of, and that fear that you’re just a housekeeper in the background, gives me the chills. If you’re not sure what you want, I think you should very quietly go and talk to a therapist or counsellor.Also, he’s made promises in the past and broken them. Talk it through thoroughly, and when you are certain what you want, take action. But if he’s very much into a particular kink, and he’s hidden this from you, then that is something you will have to tackle as you rebuild and reform your relationship.
All was well until recently, when I found out he has been at it again.Often, people who are in an emotional affair will: a) hide it from everyone; and b) say nasty things about their true partners. When a marriage doesn’t work out, many men are decent about their responsibilities but there are just as many who are deadbeat and downright nasty.